{"id":9141,"date":"2015-09-18T09:47:12","date_gmt":"2015-09-18T09:47:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/test.webwise.ie\/ga\/uncategorized-ga\/louise-oneill-mo-chuid-feinphiceanna\/"},"modified":"2015-09-18T09:47:12","modified_gmt":"2015-09-18T09:47:12","slug":"louise-oneill-mo-chuid-feinphiceanna","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.webwise.ie\/ga\/nuacht-ga\/louise-oneill-mo-chuid-feinphiceanna\/","title":{"rendered":"Louise O\u2019Neill &#8211; Mo Chuid F\u00e9inphiceanna"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.webwise.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/louise.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-9020\" src=\"https:\/\/www.webwise.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/louise.jpg\" alt=\"louise\" width=\"620\" height=\"320\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.webwise.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/louise.jpg 620w, https:\/\/www.webwise.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/louise-300x155.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>L\u00fanasa 2011 a bh\u00ed ann. Bh\u00ed an oifig f\u00e1gtha agam agus m\u00e9 ag d\u00e9anamh mo bhealach tr\u00edd an aer ramhar agus tr\u00ed thuras\u00f3ir\u00ed a bh\u00ed ag cur allais agus ag pl\u00f3d\u00fa Times Square chun an Q Train a fh\u00e1il ar ais go Brooklyn. Agus m\u00e9 s\u00ednte in aghaidh bhalla br\u00edce ard\u00e1n na traenach faoi thalamh, thosaigh eachtra\u00ed an lae ag dul tr\u00ed m\u2019intinn. (Ar sheol m\u00e9 na sampla\u00ed si\u00fad ar ais go Gucci? An ndearna m\u00e9 bot\u00fan seaf\u00f3ideach eile? Cad at\u00e1 <em>ar si\u00fal agam <\/em>le mo shaol?) Agus ansin chonaic m\u00e9 \u00ed. Cail\u00edn\u00ed amach sna d\u00e9aga, \u00ed ina su\u00ed l\u00e9i f\u00e9in, gruaig fhada dhubh uirthi agus \u00e9adan beag tana\u00ed mar a bheadh b\u00e1b\u00f3g ann. Bh\u00ed an iPhone ansi\u00fad aici, agus \u00ed ag iarraidh, agus gan ag \u00e9ir\u00ed go r\u00f3mhaith l\u00e9i, picti\u00far a ghlacadh di f\u00e9in, \u00ed ag seice\u00e1il an cheamara, ag osna\u00edl, agus ansin ag iarraidh picti\u00far eile a ghlacadh. Chaith m\u00e9 s\u00fail thar timpeall, ionas go mbreathn\u00f3dh duine \u00e9igin orm le go ndeimhneoinn i nd\u00e1ir\u00edre go raibh an cail\u00edn\u00ed seo ag glacadh picti\u00far di f\u00e9in lena f\u00f3n ar ard\u00e1n na traenach faoi thalamh. Cad a bh\u00ed ar si\u00fal aici? <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cAr nd\u00f3igh, feicim \u00e9 sin ag tarl\u00fa go minic nuair a thugaim cuairt ar mo mhuintir sa Ch\u00f3ir\u00e9 Theas,\u201d a d\u00fairt mo chomhghleaca\u00ed liom ag ELLE l\u00e1 arna mh\u00e1rach. \u201cFan go bhfeicfidh t\u00fa. Beidh an n\u00f3s seo ag gach duine go luath.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Bh\u00ed an ceart aici. In 2013, d\u2019ainmnigh Oxford Dictionaries \u2018selfie\u2019 mar fhocal B\u00e9arla na bliana, agus anois agus an P\u00e1pa, Barack Obama, agus David Cameron ina measc si\u00fad a bh\u00ed ag glacadh picti\u00far d\u00edobh f\u00e9in, n\u00edl aon chuma air go dtiocfaidh deireadh leis an n\u00f3s go luath. T\u00e1 \u2018m\u00e9ar\u00f3g an fh\u00e9inphic\u2019 againn anois, n\u00f3 \u2018slait\u00edn Narcissus\u2019, mar a thug duine amh\u00e1in ar Twitter air, m\u00e9ar\u00f3g mhiotail le clampa ar thaobh amh\u00e1in chun do iPhone a choinne\u00e1il ionas gur f\u00e9idir leat an ceamara a shocr\u00fa thar ghn\u00e1thraon do l\u00e1imh. Glacaim leis go bhfuil caoga d\u00edobh cheana f\u00e9in ag an gcail\u00edn si\u00fad a chonaic m\u00e9 ar an ard\u00e1n traenach na blianta \u00f3 shin. <\/p>\n<p>Ach an oiread le haon rud a tharla\u00edonn a mb\u00edonn daoine ar b\u00eds faoi, t\u00e1 cuid mhaith scr\u00edofa ag eagarth\u00f3ir\u00ed nuacht\u00e1in agus iris\u00ed agus i mblaganna ar l\u00edne faoin t\u00f3ir (agus an t\u00f3ir ar\u00eds is ar\u00eds) at\u00e1 ar an bhF\u00e9inphic, agus go minic c\u00e1intear fir agus mn\u00e1 na linne seo sna p\u00edosa\u00ed sin toisc go bhfeiceann siad gur cheart d\u00f3ibh gach pioc d\u00e1 dtarla\u00edonn ina saol a thaispe\u00e1int don saol m\u00f3r.<strong> Mar a deir siad ar Tumblr, \u2018Pics or it didn\u2019t happen.\u2019<\/strong> T\u00e1 cuid mhaith den chaint go dt\u00ed seo d\u00edrithe ar mhn\u00e1 \u00f3ga agus ar a gcuid iompair ar l\u00edne, iompar dar le cuid mhaith nach bhfuil foll\u00e1in in aon chor. <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>T\u00e1 an phost\u00e1il sheasta d\u2019fh\u00e9inphiceanna a dh\u00e9anann cail\u00edn\u00ed \u00f3ga sna d\u00e9aga, i mbeag\u00e1n \u00e9ada\u00ed agus cuma an-ghn\u00e9asach go deo orthu, ag cur imn\u00ed mh\u00f3r ar thuismitheoir\u00ed agus ar mh\u00fainteoir\u00ed.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Mar gheall ar an m\u00e9id at\u00e1 scr\u00edofa agam f\u00e9in faoin mbr\u00fa at\u00e1 ar mhn\u00e1 na linne seo, n\u00ed raibh aon iontas orm nuair a d\u2019iarr lucht eagraithe L\u00e1 na S\u00e1bh\u00e1ilteachta Idirl\u00edn orm iarracht a dh\u00e9anamh aghaidh a thabhairt ar an imn\u00ed sin. <\/p>\n<p>Toisc gur chaith m\u00e9 blianta ag iarraidh f\u00e1il r\u00e9idh leis an droch\u00edomh\u00e1 a bh\u00ed agam de mo cholainn f\u00e9in, rud a ghabhann le neamhord itheach\u00e1in, n\u00ed rud \u00e9 an ceamara a thaitin riamh liom. N\u00edor mhaith liom f\u00e9achaint ar phicti\u00fair d\u00edom f\u00e9in toisc n\u00e1r l\u00e9irigh siad an \u00edomh\u00e1 seo a bh\u00ed agam d\u00edom f\u00e9in, n\u00f3 ar a laghad ar bith an \u00edomh\u00e1 a bh\u00ed m\u00e9 <em>a iarraidh<\/em> d\u00edom f\u00e9in. Bh\u00ednn ag st\u00e1nadh ar an bpicti\u00far ar feadh uaireanta an chloig, agus m\u00e9 ar buile. Ar buile liom f\u00e9in. Ar buile faoi bheith chomh gr\u00e1nna sin. Ar buile mar gur theip orm sa rud a bh\u00ed t\u00e1bhachtach <em>i nd\u00e1ir\u00edre <\/em> sa saol \u2013 a bheith dath\u00fail go fisiceach. B\u2019fh\u00e9idir go bhfuilim n\u00edos leochail\u00ed f\u00f3s mar gheall air sin, ach caithfidh m\u00e9 a admh\u00e1il nach raibh m\u00e9 compordach riamh leis an t\u00f3ir at\u00e1 ag daoine ar fh\u00e9inphiceanna, de r\u00e9ir mar a thagann tuilleadh agus tuilleadh aghaidheanna scagtha isteach ar mo fhotha Instagram, aon lochtanna a bh\u00ed orthu scriosta amach ag an teicneola\u00edocht. Scr\u00edobh m\u00e9 ar mo bhlag go raibh fait\u00edos orm gur l\u00e9iri\u00fa eile de Mhiotas na h\u00c1illeachta a bh\u00ed sna f\u00e9inphiceanna, bealach eile chun a chur ina lu\u00ed ar mhn\u00e1 \u00f3ga a chreidi\u00faint go bhfuil nasc d\u00edreach idir a bhfi\u00fantas f\u00e9in mar dhaoine agus a gcumas caighde\u00e1n \u00e1illeachta a bhaint amach nach f\u00e9idir a bhaint amach go minic. <\/p>\n<p>An ch\u00e9ad rud eile fuair m\u00e9 iPhone nua le haghaidh na Nollag. <\/p>\n<p>M\u00fanla n\u00edos deise le ceamara n\u00edos fearr, ba mh\u00f3r an feall gan rud chomh cliste leis a chur ag obair. C\u00e9n dochar a bheadh ann triail a bhaint as? Uair an chloig (agus thart ar 363 grianghraf scriosta ina dhiaidh sin), t\u00e1im ag scagadh f\u00e9inphic agus cos\u00falacht mh\u00f3r agam anois le duine de mhainic\u00edn\u00ed Victoria Secret, c\u00e9 nach bhfuilim baileach chomh dath\u00fail l\u00e9i. Nach iontach an saol \u00e9, a dhuine c\u00f3ir. Agus tuigim sa deireadh thiar c\u00e9n f\u00e1th ar maith le daoine f\u00e9inphiceanna \u2013 t\u00e1 smacht \u00e9igin i gceist leis, bealach inar f\u00e9idir leat ionramh\u00e1il a dh\u00e9anamh ar an gcaoi a gcuireann t\u00fa th\u00fa f\u00e9in i l\u00e1thair an tsaoil thar timpeall ort. Seasta s\u00edora\u00ed t\u00e1imid ag f\u00e9achaint ar \u00edomh\u00e1nna de mhn\u00e1 mar a fheiceann fir iad. Nach bhfuil rud \u00e9igin cumhachtach faoi bheith in ann \u00e1r n-aghaidh agus \u00e1r gcolainn f\u00e9in a chur i l\u00e1thair ar an mbealach ar mian <em>linne<\/em> go bhfeicf\u00ed iad, seachas an bealach a ndeirtear linn go mba \u2018cheart\u2019 d\u00f3ibh a bheith? <\/p>\n<p>&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.webwise.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/article-12.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-8955\" src=\"https:\/\/www.webwise.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/article-12.jpg\" alt=\"alt-1\" width=\"620\" height=\"320\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.webwise.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/article-12.jpg 620w, https:\/\/www.webwise.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/article-12-300x155.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>Mar mhn\u00e1, m\u00faineadh d\u00fainn nuair a bh\u00edomar an-\u00f3g a bheith go l\u00e1ch, gan a bheith ag tarraingt achrainn, a bheith umhal ionainn f\u00e9in. Ar\u00eds agus ar\u00eds eile, cloisim mn\u00e1 ag tos\u00fa abairt le \u201cT\u00e1 br\u00f3n orm ach\u2026\u201d n\u00f3 \u201cN\u00ed raibh m\u00e9 ach ag iarraidh ceist a chur\u2026\u201d agus \u201cB\u2019fh\u00e9idir gur ceist sheaf\u00f3ideach \u00ed seo ach\u2026\u201d; &nbsp; cruit orthu ar fhait\u00edos go gcuirfid\u00eds isteach ar an t\u00e9 ar a bhfuil siad ag d\u00edri\u00fa na ceiste. C\u00e9n f\u00e1th a mb\u00edmid ag gabh\u00e1il leithsc\u00e9il? As a bheith chomh d\u00e1na is go bhfuilimid in ann ceist a chur? \u00c9 bheith de dh\u00e1nacht ionainn am fi\u00fantach duine eile a chur am\u00fa? T\u00e1 s\u00e9 mar a bheimis d\u00e1r n-umhl\u00fa f\u00e9in toisc go dt\u00f3gaimid suas sp\u00e1s i saol ina bhfeictear go bhfuil luach m\u00f3r millteach ag baint leis na riachtanais agus leis na mianta at\u00e1 ag an bhfear geal nach bhfuil aerach, agus go gcuirtear duine ar bith nach bhfuil sna catag\u00f3ir\u00ed sin ina dtost, amhail is d\u00e1 ngearrfa\u00ed an teanga glan amach astu. Agus nuair a mhotha\u00edonn mn\u00e1 \u00f3ga nach bhfuil siad \u2018chomh luachmhar c\u00e9anna\u2019, nach fi\u00fa \u00e9isteacht lena gcuid tuairim\u00ed i gcompar\u00e1id le tuairim\u00ed fear \u00f3g, is bre\u00e1 an rud \u00e9 ar bhealach \u00e9igin gl\u00fain cail\u00edn\u00ed a fheice\u00e1il at\u00e1 in ann seasamh suas d\u00f3ibh f\u00e9in. Post\u00e1lann siad a gcuid picti\u00far ar Instagram, taispe\u00e1nann siad a n-aghaidh don cheamara agus deir siad go misni\u00fail, \u201cMise at\u00e1 ann. Creidim go bhfuilim go h\u00e1lainn inniu.\u201d&nbsp; Deirtear go dtosa\u00edmid ag tabhairt droim go n\u00e1d\u00fartha d\u00e1r dtuismitheoir\u00ed agus go dtosa\u00edmid ar \u00e1r dturas f\u00e9in sa saol in\u00e1r nd\u00e9ag\u00f3ir\u00ed, m\u00e1s f\u00edor sin b\u2019fh\u00e9idir gur cuid riachtanach den phr\u00f3iseas sin iad na f\u00e9inphiceanna, iad mar sc\u00e1th\u00e1n lenar f\u00e9idir le cail\u00edn \u00f3g a f\u00e9ini\u00falacht f\u00e9in mar dhuine f\u00e1sta a chruth\u00fa, uirlis a chabhr\u00f3idh l\u00e9i \u00ed f\u00e9in a chosaint i dtimpeallacht dhigiteach <\/p>\n<p>Ach ar nd\u00f3igh, n\u00edl ruda\u00ed chomh simpl\u00ed sin anois, an bhfuil? <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Chomh luath is a phost\u00e1laimid an picti\u00far sin, is cuma c\u00e9 chomh bre\u00e1 is a air\u00edmid f\u00fainn f\u00e9in, tosa\u00edmid ag feithimh agus n\u00edlimid in ann stopadh.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>C\u00e9 mh\u00e9ad \u2018is maith liom \u00e9\u2019 a gheobhaidh m\u00e9? An dtabharfaidh aon duine a dtuairim faoin bpicti\u00far? Abair liom go bhfuilim dath\u00fail, a Shaol M\u00f3r. Abair liom go bhfuilim t\u00e1bhachtach. <em>Abair liom go bhfuilim anseo.<\/em> Is rud bun\u00fasach an mianach at\u00e1 sa duine gur maith linn go dtaitneoimis leo si\u00fad at\u00e1 in\u00e1r measc. N\u00edlimid a iarraidh ach go nglacfar linn. <\/p>\n<p>B\u00edonn tuismitheoir\u00ed, m\u00fainteoir\u00ed agus daoine eile a bhfuil \u00fadar\u00e1s acu ag gear\u00e1n faoi chomh gn\u00e9asach is at\u00e1 na f\u00e9inphiceanna a phost\u00e1lann cail\u00edn\u00ed, agus c\u00e9 go bhf\u00e9adfadh duine a r\u00e1 gurb annamh a bh\u00edonn an clampar seo ar fad faoi ghn\u00e9asacht bhl\u00e1far na mban \u00f3g d\u00edrithe in aon chor ar fhir \u00f3ga at\u00e1 ar comhaois leo, tuigim an imn\u00ed at\u00e1 orthu. Mar sin f\u00e9in, n\u00ed leigheas ar bith ar an sc\u00e9al \u00e9 cail\u00edn\u00ed a n\u00e1iri\u00fa as iarracht a dh\u00e9anamh a gcuid gn\u00e9asachta a l\u00e9iri\u00fa, n\u00e1 n\u00ed leigheas \u00e9 smacht a fh\u00e1il ar an \u00fas\u00e1id a bhaineann siad as na me\u00e1in sh\u00f3isialta agus as an idirl\u00edon. N\u00ed m\u00f3r d\u00fainn f\u00e9achaint ar an gcult\u00far at\u00e1 cruthaithe againn f\u00e9in, na daoine f\u00e1sta, a mh\u00faineann do chail\u00edn\u00ed go gcaithfidh siad iad f\u00e9in a ghl\u00e9asadh agus a iompar ar bhealach gn\u00e9asach, ach m\u00e1 aithn\u00edtear iad mar dhuine gn\u00e9asach gur rud cont\u00fairteach d\u00f3ibh \u00e9 sin ar bhealach \u00e9igin. <\/p>\n<p>Is iad na mn\u00e1 is m\u00f3 a fheicimid i mb\u00e9al an phobail n\u00e1 aisteoir\u00ed agus r\u00e9alta\u00ed popcheoil agus r\u00e9alta\u00ed teilif\u00eds r\u00e9altachta, agus iad go l\u00e9ir le feice\u00e1il ar chl\u00fada\u00ed iris\u00ed agus pus m\u00f3r orthu mar a bheid\u00eds \u00e1 bp\u00f3gadh agus \u00e9ada\u00ed s\u00e1ch gr\u00edosaitheach \u00e1 gcaitheamh acu. N\u00edl aon duine ag r\u00e1 gur ch\u00f3ir do mhn\u00e1 n\u00e1ire a bheith orthu as a gcolainn f\u00e9in agus gur cheart d\u00f3ibh n\u00edos m\u00f3 \u00e9ada\u00ed a chaitheamh ach m\u00e1 athra\u00edonn t\u00fa ruda\u00ed thart agus Jay-Z a shamhl\u00fa ina chuid fobhr\u00edst\u00ed ar chl\u00fadach Time Magazine d\u00edreach mar a bh\u00ed Beyonc\u00e9, ansin is l\u00e9ir nach r\u00e9it\u00edonn an d\u00e1 sc\u00e9al le ch\u00e9ile in aon chor. Mar sin t\u00e1 an teachtaireacht sin \u00e1 tabhairt do chail\u00edn\u00ed m\u00e1s mian leo a bheith rath\u00fail sa saol, m\u00e1 t\u00e1 siad ag iarraidh airgead a bheith acu agus c\u00e1il agus \u00f3m\u00f3s an phobail a bhaint amach go gcaithfidh siad a bheith gn\u00e9asach, ach ag an am c\u00e9anna t\u00e1 caighde\u00e1in mh\u00f3ra mhor\u00e1ltachta \u00e1 smacht\u00fa, rud nach bhfuil ag tarl\u00fa do bhuachaill\u00ed. D\u00e1 r\u00e9ir sin tarraing\u00edtear m\u00edchl\u00fa agus b\u00edtear ag magadh go poibl\u00ed faoin gcail\u00edn a bh\u00ed ag an gceolchoirm i mBaile Shl\u00e1ine n\u00f3 faoin gcail\u00edn a bh\u00ed ar saoire in Magaluf, ach n\u00ed chuirtear suim ar bith sna fir a bh\u00ed i gceist \u2013 \u201car nd\u00f3igh nach buachaill\u00ed iad\u201d a deirtear. <\/p>\n<p>&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>Is ioma\u00ed rud a ghoilleann ar chail\u00edn \u00f3 bheirtear \u00ed go dt\u00ed go dtosa\u00edonn s\u00ed ag post\u00e1il F\u00e9inphiceanna di f\u00e9in agus a bic\u00edn\u00ed uirthi, ag fanacht go nd\u00e9arfaidh duine \u00e9igin l\u00e9i go bhfuil s\u00ed go h\u00e1lainn. <\/p>\n<p>F\u00e1gann a hathair c\u00f3ip de <em>The Sun<\/em> caite thart agus picti\u00far de mhainic\u00edn gan c\u00edochbheart ar Leathanach 3\u2026 B\u00edonn a m\u00e1thair ina su\u00ed ag comhr\u00e1 lena cara, ag magadh faoi mhe\u00e1chan at\u00e1 curtha suas ag bean ch\u00e1ili\u00fail \u00e9igin, ach gan dochar di ar nd\u00f3igh. N\u00edl a seanmh\u00e1thair ag ithe briosca\u00ed mar t\u00e1 s\u00ed ag \u2018iarraidh bheith go maith.\u2019 F\u00e1gann a deirfi\u00far mh\u00f3r r\u00e1iteas gr\u00e1nna ar an <em>Daily Mail<\/em> ar l\u00edne faoi \u00e9ada\u00ed a chaith bean \u00e9igin n\u00e1r thaitin l\u00e9i, b\u00edonn an t\u00e9 at\u00e1 ag tabhairt aire di ag breathn\u00fa de sh\u00edor ar <em>America\u2019s Next Top Model<\/em>, \u00e9isteann a dearth\u00e1ir le rapcheol a bhfuil liric\u00ed uaf\u00e1sacha iontu ina l\u00e9ir\u00edtear fuath do mhn\u00e1, imr\u00edonn a col ceathrar Grand Theft Auto gan staonadh, ag caint faoi \u2018striapach amaideach\u2019 at\u00e1 maraithe aige. Ceanna\u00edonn cara l\u00e9i c\u00e1s pinn luaidhe Playboy di nuair a bh\u00edonn s\u00ed deich mbliana d\u2019aois. Feiceann s\u00ed c\u00edochbhirt chun a c\u00edocha a bhr\u00fa suas go dt\u00ed a smig \u00e1 nd\u00edol i rann\u00e1n na bp\u00e1ist\u00ed sa siopa \u00e1iti\u00fail. Ruda\u00ed beaga, nach bhfuil ceangal ar bith acu le ch\u00e9ile sh\u00edlfe\u00e1 \u2013 ach ruda\u00ed ar fad a chuireann le cult\u00far ina moth\u00f3idh an cail\u00edn sin tionchar an ghn\u00e9is an t-am ar fad, a luach d\u00fachasach mar dhuine laghdaithe mar gheall ar a dreach fisiceach. <\/p>\n<p>&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>B\u00edonn imn\u00ed ar thuismitheoir\u00ed faoin drochthionchar at\u00e1 ag na me\u00e1in sh\u00f3isialta ar fh\u00e9inmhuin\u00edn a n-in\u00edne. T\u00e1 fait\u00edos orthu go bhfuil an t-idirl\u00edon ag cur a bp\u00e1iste i mbaol, ag cur br\u00fa uirthi nach f\u00e9idir l\u00e9i a sheasamh. <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Ach n\u00ed h\u00e9 Instagram at\u00e1 ag m\u00faineadh do chail\u00edn\u00ed \u00f3ga sc\u00f3r picti\u00far gn\u00e9asach a phost\u00e1il d\u00edobh f\u00e9in taobh istigh de ch\u00fapla n\u00f3im\u00e9ad. D\u00e9antar an dam\u00e1iste i bhfad sula mb\u00edonn siad s\u00e1ch sean le tuiscint fi\u00fa cad at\u00e1 i gceist le l\u00edonr\u00fa s\u00f3isialta.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>B\u2019fh\u00e9idir gur ch\u00f3ir <em>d\u00fainne<\/em> L\u00e1 na S\u00e1bh\u00e1ilteachta Idirl\u00edn a \u00fas\u00e1id chun \u00e1r n-iompar f\u00e9in a mheas agus fiafra\u00ed d\u00ednn f\u00e9in \u2013 an bhfuil t\u00fa ag cabhr\u00fa chun an cult\u00far sin a athr\u00fa? N\u00f3 an bhfuil t\u00fa \u00e1 scaoileadh tharat, t\u00fa s\u00e1sta nach mbeidh i d\u2019in\u00edon, i do mh\u00e1thair, i do dheirfi\u00far, i do chail\u00edn n\u00f3 i do bhean ch\u00e9ile ach rud gn\u00e9asach i ndeireadh an tsaoil? <\/p>\n<p> Le Louise O\u2019Neill. Is \u00fadar \u00c9ireannach \u00ed Louise a bhfuil gradaim buaite aici. I measc a cuid leabhar t\u00e1:<a href=\"http:\/\/www.louiseoneillauthor.com\/books\/\" target=\"_blank\"> &#8216;Only Ever Yours&#8217; <\/a>agus <a href=\"http:\/\/www.louiseoneillauthor.com\/books\/\" target=\"_blank\">&#8216;Asking For It&#8217;.<\/a> <\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>L\u00fanasa 2011 a bh\u00ed ann. Bh\u00ed an oifig f\u00e1gtha agam agus m\u00e9 ag d\u00e9anamh mo bhealach tr\u00edd an aer ramhar [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":9021,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[78],"tags":[258,260,259],"class_list":["post-9141","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nuacht-ga","tag-tuismitheoiri-ga-8","tag-feinphiceanna","tag-louise-o-neill-ga"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Louise O\u2019Neill - Mo chuid f\u00e9inphiceanna<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Labhra\u00edonn Louise O\u2019Neill linn faoina cuid smaointe agus faoina taith\u00ed f\u00e9in ar na me\u00e1in sh\u00f3isialta agus ar an saol ar l\u00edne.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.webwise.ie\/ga\/nuacht-ga\/louise-oneill-mo-chuid-feinphiceanna\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Louise O\u2019Neill - Mo chuid f\u00e9inphiceanna\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Labhra\u00edonn Louise O\u2019Neill linn faoina cuid smaointe agus faoina taith\u00ed f\u00e9in ar na me\u00e1in sh\u00f3isialta agus ar an saol ar l\u00edne.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.webwise.ie\/ga\/nuacht-ga\/louise-oneill-mo-chuid-feinphiceanna\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Webwise.ie\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/Webwise\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2015-09-18T09:47:12+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/www.webwise.ie\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/09\/louise.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"620\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"320\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Jane McGarrigle\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Jane McGarrigle\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"13 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\\\/\\\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.webwise.ie\\\/ga\\\/nuacht-ga\\\/louise-oneill-mo-chuid-feinphiceanna\\\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.webwise.ie\\\/ga\\\/nuacht-ga\\\/louise-oneill-mo-chuid-feinphiceanna\\\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Jane McGarrigle\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.webwise.ie\\\/ga\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/e9581b863d6d7c0f1a3e54768525c322\"},\"headline\":\"Louise O\u2019Neill &#8211; 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