Online Scams and Young people: What Parents Need to Know

While scams are not a new phenomenon, their level of sophistication has increased significantly in recent years. Advances in AI technology means that fraudsters can easily create deepfake videos, cloned voices, and highly realistic fake websites. These tools allow scammers to create more convincing and complex schemes that are harder to detect. As a result, even experienced users can find it difficult to distinguish between legitimate and fraudulent content, increasing the risk of falling victim to these scams.
Children and teenagers are also increasingly being targeted by online scams. These often occur through gaming platforms, social media, or direct messages, where tactics are designed to take advantage of curiosity, peer influence, and the appeal of online validation.
Research from the Banking and Payments Federation Ireland indicates that nearly half of young adults have reported being targeted by scams. In digitally connected countries like Ireland, exposure to such risks is high—up to 68%, according to data from the European Commission.
So, how are young people being drawn in? And how can parents and educators help them stay safe?
Why Children and Young People Are Vulnerable to Scams

As they continue to develop the critical thinking and digital literacy skills to assess risk, they can be more susceptible to online scams. Individuals engaged in online fraud often focus their efforts on the platforms where young people are most active—such as gaming environments, messaging apps, and social media channels like TikTok and Instagram.
Children and young people may not always question messages that appear to come from friends or links that offer free game credits or prizes.
These scams are typically designed to align with young users’ interests. Common tactics include fake offers for in-game rewards or alerts about supposed security issues, with the intent of gaining access to personal data, money, or trust.
Types of Online Scams Young People Encounter
Here are some common traps and how they work.
1. Phishing: The Classic Disguise
Phishing scams often look like official messages from a platform your child trusts – Roblox login pages or TikTok password resets. Usually, the child receives a link – often from what appears to be a friend – and is prompted to enter credentials. It all looks legitimate until their account is hijacked.
More generally, phishing is when fraudsters try to gain access to your confidential information such as bank details, credit card information, or passwords.
Learn more about phishing.
2. Impersonation and Social Engineering
Imposters create fake profiles mimicking friends, influencers, or even teachers. These scams rely heavily on emotional manipulation, gaining trust before introducing a malicious link or request.
3. Fake Shopping Sites and Counterfeit Goods
Scams involving offers of exclusive items—such as gaming skins or limited-edition merchandise—can be used to target children and young people. These scams may request login credentials or a small “verification” payment in exchange for the promised items. In many cases, the items are never delivered and can result in financial information being stolen.
4. “You’ve Won!” Scams
Prize promotions or wins sound exciting but can be misleading. When children receive these messages or emails, they may be asked to provide personal information or make payments under the pretence of covering “processing fees.” These tactics are commonly used in online scams to collect sensitive data or money.
5. Money Mule Recruitment
Criminal networks sometimes recruit teens to receive and transfer stolen money usually in exchange for a cut of the money or a flashy gift. Many young people may not fully understand that this activity—known as money muling—is illegal. It can result in serious consequences, including a criminal record, restrictions on banking, and long-term financial impacts. While people of any age are susceptible to becoming a money mule, based on a survey conducted by FraudSMART, the majority of money mule bank accounts belong to those aged between 18 and 24 years of age, with some as young as 14. Recruitment often takes place through social media advertisements.
6. Investment Scams
Scammers often promise quick profits through cryptocurrency or other investment opportunities. These scams frequently use social media ads or influencers to create a sense of credibility and urgency, encouraging people to make fast decisions without sufficient research.
7. Romance Scams and Catfishing
Online scammers may operate on dating websites, social media platforms, or online forums, using fake profiles to build relationships with victims. These individuals often attempt to establish trust by communicating through instant messaging, text messages, or phone calls. Once a connection is formed, they may request money, gifts, or sensitive personal content. Over time, the interaction can shift from friendly to exploitative in nature.
8. Ransomware and Malware Distribution
Ransomware is a type of malicious software designed to block access to a user’s files or entire system by encrypting the data. The attackers then demand a payment, often called a ransom, in exchange for a key that can decrypt and restore access to the files. In some cases, individuals—including teens—may unknowingly become involved in spreading ransomware by sharing infected files or links, sometimes in exchange for money or other incentives.
9. Social Media Spoofing
Social media spoofing involves creating a fake account that uses someone’s name or image without permission. It can be used to spread malware, damage their reputation, or tick others into sharing personal information.
Where Scams Appear: Common Places to Watch
Scams can be found in many places online:
- Emails and pop-up ads
- Text messages and phone calls
- Gaming chats and friend requests
- Social media DMs
- Fake payment pages or online shops
- Online quizzes, surveys, and giveaways
How to Spot a Scam: Signs Your Child Should Know
Encourage your child to Stop, Think, Check. Slow down and think critically, especially when:
- They are pressured to act immediately
- The offer feels “too good to be true”
- The message creates fear, urgency, or excitement
- They’re asked to switch to another platform quickly
- The person insists on secrecy or avoiding adult involvement
Teach them to ask simple questions like, “Does this make sense?” or “Would this company really contact me this way?”
Reducing Risk: Practical Steps for Parents and Educators
Education is an important tool. It begins with having open and regular conversations.
Some helpful steps:
- Encourage children to think critically about offers and messages
- Warn against clicking suspicious links or downloading files from unknown sources
- Teach them to guard personal information – login details, real names, birthdays
- Discuss privacy settings and digital footprints
- Reinforce that they can and should come to you if something feels off
- Install reputable antivirus and security software
- Use password managers to store complex, unique passwords
- Avoid public Wi-Fi when entering sensitive information
It is important to remind them that no online opportunity should require them to keep it a secret or feel pressured to stay silent. If something upsets or bothers them to come and talk to you.
If Your Child Falls for a Scam: What to do next?

Being a scam victim can have emotional, financial and physical impact. Stay calm and reassure your child. Let them know that you are there to help them.
- Reassure them. They are not in trouble.
- Gather any details—screenshots, emails, account names
- Report the scam on the relevant platform
- Contact your bank if any financial info was shared
- Reset passwords and enable two-factor authentication
- File a report with Garda: Garda Cyber Crime Reporting
Review the experience together, and approach this as a learning opportunity rather than a lecture. What happened? Why did the scam succeed? What can be done differently in the future?
Looking Ahead: Why Awareness Must Keep Evolving
Advances in AI are changing how scams are created and detected. While it is not possible to predict every scam, with support and guidance children and young people can develop the awareness and confidence to recognise potential risks.
It is important to keep discussions about scams open and regular. Sharing experiences and encouraging questions can help build critical thinking.
Staying safe online involves more than just technology like firewalls and filters; it requires trust, awareness, and the ability to Stop, Think, Check before acting.
Resources for Parents
#TalkListenLearn Online Topic Generator
The Webwise Topic Generator is a great way to begin conversations with your child about the opportunities and challenges of being online.


Casting the Net – Cybersecurity
Dr. Hazel Murray provides advice and tips for young people about being secure online.
Information and advice from An Garda Síochána.


Talking to your teen about staying safe online
Tips and advice for parents about talking to their teen about staying safe online.