Online Pressures – Filtering the Good from the Bad

Online Pressures – Filtering the Good from the Bad

Social media is a great  place to connect with others and to share parts of our lives, see into other people’s worlds, and is a fantastic platform to raise awareness about important issues.  On the other hand though, it can add pressure by portraying an idealised version of normal life. Our newsfeeds often contain images of people looking great, wearing nice clothes, and doing exciting things. Living their best lives!

 

These are just snapshots in time which may have been carefully shot, selected, edited and filtered before they were posted. While most of us may do this to some extent, it can still be easy to fall into a trap of comparing our lives to the lives of others, or comparing the number of likes, comments and followers they have. This can have a negative impact on our mood and self-esteem and it is important that we can recognise and manage this.

 

So how do you filter the good from the bad on social media? 

We have some useful tips.

1. Strike a balance

If you find that you are spending a lot of time scrolling through other people’s lives – take a break. Go out and make your own memories – doing activities that you find fun will mean you are less likely to be worried about what others are doing.

 

2. Think outside the crop box

Be happy for people who are sharing great things! But whether it’s someone famous or even someone you know, keep in mind that we don’t always see the full picture. While it might look like they are having a great time, nobody’s life is perfect all of the time – they are just choosing not to share those other parts! People are less likely to post a picture of themselves sitting on the couch watching tv or cleaning their bedroom – but it doesn’t mean that it didn’t happen.

 

3. Edited reality?

It’s human nature, we all want to look our best! Fun filters are great and can be very entertaining, but keep in mind that people often use subtle filters, and editing tools to tweak their pictures.  These tools are often so sophisticated that you can’t tell if something (or someone!) has been enhanced. 

 

4. Find the positive 

Like in real life, who you interact or spend time with can influence how you feel. In some ways you might aspire to be like the people you follow, but having a social media feed that is full of celebrities or friends who showcase the perfect image or lifestyle is a one dimensional reflection of life. So, it’s a good idea to balance this by following people who share your values and interests. Take the time to consider how you feel after spending time online – if something made you feel upset or uneasy, maybe it is time to hit ‘unfollow’ and find something healthier. It’s a big online world – you can make it work for you!

 

5. Make time for reflection

Take some time to think about the things that you are grateful for and that are important to you. This can be a good way to offset any negative feelings.